Let’s talk about headphones…
Training alone? Put em on! Crank up that sweaty soundtrack. I’m a fan who acutely understands music’s powerful influence on exercise.
Add people to the equation and you lose me.
When training with others or racing, headphones are great dividers. Your ‘leave me alone’ statement resonates, even though it may be unintentional.
The advent of ‘get off your butt and train for something’ apps has been awesome. Thousands have downloaded training plans and begun a healthier journey without the intimidation of joining a group. I get that. Comes a time, though, when the crutch must be hung up, when pods bow to people.
There’s a moment in every group training session or race when a comment is appropriate, even helpful. I’m not advocating a 10K long conversation, but there’s something comforting about briefly commiserating about that upcoming hill or encouraging someone to keep going strong.
Now, let’s talk about telephones…
My first suit and tie position was in marketing with United Way of Dutchess County. Our President and CEO was Jack Durkin, a master in schmoozing the powers-that-were to benefit a slew of local non-profits. My first day produced my first meeting with Jack. He’s about to make a point when we’re interrupted by a buzz on his phone.
“Mr. Durkin, Mr. Mack is on the phone.”
“Thanks, please tell him I’ll call him back, I’m in here with George. Also, no more interruptions please.”
I was more important to Jack Durkin than the President and CEO of Central Hudson Gas & Electric Corp.
The message was loud and clear; I mattered. I was pumped, honored, and engaged.
When you’re with an employee:
- Don’t answer the phone – don’t even look at it if it rings.
- If you have room set up a place to sit and talk separate from your desk.
- Eye contact, eye contact, eye contact…
When you’re with an employee there is nothing more important than that person, right there, in front of you. If anything less than a fire distracts you, you’re simply being disrespectful, even if it is unintentional.
Like headphones in a race…